Back in May Master gave me 2 labia piercings. One of which didn’t last very long. It was pretty painful for some reason and He decided that it wasn’t worth the hassle as long as the other one was working out, He’d go ahead and take it out. The hole that the one He took out had left was a fairly good size hole but He really just took the ring out with every intention of allowing it to close up and having it redone some day.
Since the piercings, the other ring has migrated and hole has gotten pretty big. From what i’ve read, it’s not at all uncommon for a labia piercing to get big as the skin is really thin especially as Master tells me i am not quite “normal”. One labia is normal and the other isn’t. So Master got a new barbell type “ring” in the mail and went ahead and put it in the hole the other night. LOL omgosh the hole has gotten so big it just slid right through. Turns out after lots of fiddling around down there, the hole is about a 00gauge. So, pretty big. In the mean time, He put the ring back in and ordered a flesh tunnel.
While He was messing around down there, He said… HEY! That hole is still there from the old piercing! Immediately i see **pain** but He said He would try it and not force it through, so moral of the story is…. The barbell He ordered for the bigger hole is now in the hole He’d completely given up on!!! *YaY*. The best part is, there is no pain with the barbell. =)
This is from a post on Fet Life; i was responding to someone asking about how you use your short skirts to tease men. The thing is, i’m not really into the whole “tease” thing. Not that i would have to anyway being married and not needing or wanting to attract another man, but i think the word or even the idea of teasing alone can be very dangerous in and of itself. That being said, i love both short and long skirts with stockings. Of course short skirts with stockings in public aren’t really a possibility unless you’re incredibly careful with your movements and even then showing your garters are way too likely for my taste. At home however is another story and Master loves that look.
Once i’m out of the shower on a typical day however, i can be found in a long skirt, stockings, girdle and slip with some sort of heel depending on my activity for the day. Master loves nothing more than the feeling of the garter tabs underneath my skirts.
So really, it’s not about what you see, it’s what you don’t see. It’s the mystery and the allure of what a lady has to offer, not just putting it all out there and with nothing left to the imagination.
For me it’s about being Master’s lady, that’s what turns Him on and of course, that’s where my interests lie. =)
i hope everyone is having a good Saturday evening!!
Peace to you and yours,
Peace to you all!
Normally i don’t post tips or advice about stockings or heels or girdles on the blog but this one i have to share. If anything i just post on Fet Life but this one is an oldie but a goodie!
Master placed a huge stocking order for me for Christmas from the same place, same stockings, nothing has changed, nothing. Same everything. Same company, same brand, same type of shoes, same feet. =p The weird thing is the stockings have been getting runs much faster than they ever have and it’s maddening! i read on Fet Life an old trick that i had totally forgotten about!!!! Before you don your stockings, spray the toes with hair spray!!! TAA DAAA!!! No runs!
i had read long before that hair spray will help stop a run, nearly as well as fingernail polish, but i’ve never had much luck with that. i’ve also heard the trick about the hairspray with preventing runs, but i TOTALLY forgot about it. i just wonder how many stockings i could have preserved with this trick!!! Anywho, if you’re not a stocking wearer, never fear, of course same goes with panty hose, thigh highs or knee highs!
Good luck and long live the stocking! =)
Peace to you and your beautiful legs ~ hahaha
i never know when i might be falling out of favor with Master. It’s not even so much that i’m forgetting my place or that i might be in need of “correction” as He calls it, it’s just that He’ll make a comment “you sure are cocky, aren’t you?”. i should see the writing on the wall, when those comments start coming. i never do though, i suppose i’m sort of thick and i don’t just mean my thighs! =p
The other day i was in the kitchen giving the dog a snack for the umptheenth time that day and i knew that Master was planning something as He wouldn’t allow me to get dressed in my girdle and stockings as normal, i was just in a mini skirt and blouse. Very uncharacteristic of Him. So He called me into the bedroom and it appeared i was indeed in for some sort of something, but He never lets on as to what it’s going to be. i know it’s because He doesn’t want me to freak out or get nervous. He put a ball gag in and earlier He’d put the leather wrist cuffs on as well as the big belled leather ankle cuffs. i seriously sound like Santa when i wear those things. They are very loud when i wear just one, let alone both of them.
i also had the stainless steel & silicone locking collar on that He doesn’t have me wear very often, so i had a pretty good idea from earlier in the day when He was putting all that on me that something was coming, later in the day. Again, i just didn’t know what and that’s always better for me. So He attached the ankle cuffs together with some sort of lock and then to a chain that’s always on the bed. Then locked the leather wrist cuffs together (i think?) behind my back and also put some handcuffs on me. He also attached my hands to a chain hanging from the bed post.
If you’ve never seen pictures of the bed that Master built about a year ago, it’s worth the gander. i don’t care how badly i wanted out of those chains, they were attached to eye bolts that go into 4×4 posts. The bed itself is pretty intense.
Once He had me all secure He gave me some quiet time which for me isn’t a bad thing. i don’t get bored easily and i can just sit for a long time. What is always hard for me is being worried about what’s coming and the pain of the handcuffs. There was a time when i could hardly hold my arms behind my back, i don’t have that trouble as much, now it’s the handcuffs as they cut into my hands. i don’t have a high threshold for that i guess. So i sit there and i wonder what will happen and i have the hardest time concentrating, what will He do to me and what have i done to get here?
i always try to think about my smart mouth and why i say the things i say, why can’t i just shut my mouth? i know that more often than not it’s not what i say but sometimes what i don’t say. He wants me to talk to Him, He wants me to say the right things, He wants me to be more passionate. So here i sit, trying to think of ways to be more passionate, and in He walks and He grabs a little flogger i think that’s what He picks up first. The first thing He does is swing down hard and hits the very tip of the nipple/nipple ring and it stings, badly. i just looked down because i didn’t want to whimper right off. He goes through a little flogger, another flogger and some little leather smacker thing. i’m red by now and every time He hits me i can’t help but think He doesn’t hit me often enough, i know i deserve it, but i just wish He’d stop. Over and over in my head, please please please please stop…. it hurts it hurts owie owie… Finally He stops. It hasn’t been long but to me, long enough.
He kisses me and asks me if i’ve learned my lesson, with sort of a sadistic laugh. A laugh i really haven’t heard from Him before. i just said uh huh and He left me. He left me to think some more.
i know i need this more often and it might be the first time in a long time i’ve written about something like this. i just don’t think that when He gives me a lesson like this i am as thankful as i should be. i want it to be over the entire time and then when it’s over, i feel bad that i didn’t try harder. Am i more of a masochist than i’ve ever made myself out to be? =)
Peace to you and yours
So i’ve been asking Master for a new foundation garment, i wear an all in one open bottom with 4 garters. i am just needing a new one as after washing the ones i have wear out. He handed me a package the other day and said that He got me a new foundation garment and that i was to try it on. i knew immediately it wasn’t the “right” one because i could feel the boning was stronger, right through the packing.
When i took it out of the package i could see it was more of a corselette, so i set out to find other garments to wear with it. i have a long line bra but not a great fitting one, let me rephrase that, i have many long line bras, but not one that is a great fit. So i made due. Once i had the whole outfit on, i was really happy with the look. The new foundation garment fit great, much better than any other laced garment i have had before. Any other time i have tried a corselette it’s been much too long or short, but this time with the laces tightened properly and tight enough, it fit well. my stomach was nice and flat and the skirt that i had one before, i slipped back on and it was nearly too big. i can easily tuck a shirt in without feeling self conscience and that’s a feeling i haven’t had for a while. i’m not sure how many inches it took off my waist but i know it was a couple at least.
i haven’t worn it every day since, but i have worn it and i definitely plan on incorporating into my daily attire as soon as i find a good fitting long line bra. In the mean time i’ll make due with the bras that i have and wear it occasionally, it’s worth it. i know that Master enjoyed it very much so for that alone, it’s worth it for me me.
i felt sexier that night than i have felt in a long time, i wasn’t really even wearing anything different that night as far as my skirt and blouse, but once i was dressed in my foundation garments, i put on higher heels, longer earrings and a touch more make up. Feeling sexy automatically makes you look sexy, that’s just a fact, it’s gotta be, right? haha
Peace to you and yours,
Master decided a while ago that if He enjoys seeing me in my girdle, stockings and high heels that He was certain others would too so He has started making clips, longer and shorter ones of me. Things that are just part of my daily routine but things that others might look at as “out of the norm”, to be done in 4inch heels.
This is a whole new venture for us, Him putting me out there for others to see. We’ve never shown my face before and in so much as it hasn’t been a major decision not to, now it’s a decision we’ve made that we *will* show my face as well as just about every other part of me. He’s already made clips out of the piercing video He took when He just did the labia piercings a few months back.
Master made an excellent point one night when we talked about it and He made the final decision, He said anyone that finds these clips or finds my blog, we’ll learn something about them too. If that person wants to confront us, then they’ll have to come out with where they saw me and or the video clip. So it’ll be a double edged sword.
It’s been something fun and exciting for Master and i because it’s an opportunity for us to show how we live our life on a daily basis. Nothing fancy or anything different from our daily routine, it’s just giving us a chance to show the inside life as Master and slave. The sometimes mundane sometimes erotic sometimes silly (often silly) life that we’ve come to truly love. So for us, it’s just another leg on this journey of our life together. One that we’re enjoying so far and we hope that if you decide to join us on it, we hope that you enjoy it too! Our store will be opening soon and when it does, we’ll post a link to it on the blog, it’s very amateur as it’s just us, being us! hehehehe!
Peace to you and yours, i hope everyone is staying cool! It’s been so hot here lately i can’t imagine living in a southern state! Stay Cool!
Master sent me an article the other day regarding femininity and how the feminine woman functions in our society. For me being feminine is really important, because it’s very important to my Master. He has very strong views on how women should dress and conduct themselves. Because this is such an important topic to Him, it’s important to me.
The article had some really good points and made me think about myself and am i as feminine as i “should” be. One thing that it mentioned was how a woman dresses, that was a key point, in fact. It suggested that a woman should wear a flowing skirt or dress in lieu of pants, jeans or sweat pants. Since i have become Master’s slave, one of the rules that i live by is that i wear nothing but skirts, panty hose and a foundation garment (girdle). The only times that i’m allowed to vary from this is when Master gives me permission to do so. i have become very comfortable in this dress and it comes as second nature to me now. i enjoy dressing the way that pleases Master and this dress makes me feel ultra feminine.
There are other things that make me feel feminine as well, wearing my make up in a way that is pleasing to Master, wearing earrings that He likes and conducting myself as a lady. One thing that i have had to learn to do since being owned by Master is learn how to speak like a lady. When i hear a woman with a filthy mouth, it really makes me pay attention to how important our language is and how it reflects on what kind of woman we are. Being a feminine woman is really important to me and i’m constantly working on improving my femininity. Some day i hope to be Master’s “ultimate feminine woman” and until i am *that* woman, i’ll keep striving.
Stepping down from my soap box hehe. The last couple of days have been fairly busy as i worked last night and even though i only work for a few hours, it seems like a 16 hour shift. It really tires me out to be on my feet for that long, but i really enjoy being out in the public and i’m loving that i’m getting to know more people in the area. i had my league bowling tonight and as usual i stunk, but at least i’m having fun doing terrible!! =) i love the women that i bowl with and i’m making friends through the league and that has been my goal since i joined the league. Master spent some time early in the bowling season coaching me as He’s quite an excellent bowler but i think that i’ve lost all the “tips” He’s given me!
i’m really looking forward to Saturday night as the kids in this area are trick or treating on Saturday vs. Sunday. i love seeing all the little kids and handing out the candy. i’m even toying with the idea of dressing up to hand out candy, but i’m not sure what i would dress as. i love Halloween it’s one of my favorite nights of the year. Last year we didn’t hand out candy or anything because it was the night of the rehearsal dinner for our wedding. my entire family was in town and it was a wonderful night. So i missed Halloween last year, but for a *very* good reason.
That’s all for tonight, off to bed with me.
Peace to you and yours,